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The optimistic bias

Are we born to be more optimistic than realistic? Tali Sharot presents her new research suggesting that our brains are wired to look on the bright side—and how that can be both dangerous and beneficial.

According to various studies, optimism is considered a significant positive influence factor on physical and mental health, promoting healthy lifestyle-related behavioral patterns and adaptive responses to negative conditions. However, when in excess, this unrealistic optimism can result in frustration and even harm to interpersonal relationships.

In the video below, from the YouTube channel ‘TED,’ which showcases the best TED Conferences by the world’s greatest thinkers, we see Tali Sharot, an Israeli/British/American neuroscientist and professor of cognitive neuroscience, discussing optimism and how it affects our lives.

Whenever an immediate thought arises, try to stop and think: is this true, really? Where did this thought come from? After all, why do I see the situation this way?

Similarly, reflect on what you often think about the people around you or the situations you go through. Is your first impression correct, or is it the result of anxious thinking?

Some consider fear as a natural bodily response, while others say it’s a limiting belief. The correct answer is definitely the first one.
There are moments when this fear reaches levels where our only option is to feel anguish. And embracing this feeling is the first step to get through it.
The fear of making mistakes and perfectionism go hand in hand and can be significant enemies of your mental health.
Our emotions are automatic reactions to the experiences we go through, and what defines what we feel in a given situation is our own life history.
Do you want a simple tool that makes you reflect on how you’ve been living your life? The Wheel of Life is a great option!
To better deal with issues that undermine your self-confidence, turning to other people can be a crucial first step.
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